Common misconceptions addicts
Addicts are Lazy People.
Addicts may seem lazy but they are not always lazy people. In fact, they are usually highly motivated to satisfy their cravings. It really takes the risk that the amount of energy to organize and ensure that there is enough of the drug through the rest of the day and tomorrow and the day after that.
Whether it is to make sure you have computer access to pornography or that you have enough alcohol rationed out for the next day. Plan to get ration and medicines to make sure you have enough of it, but to hide it from those around you, take a lot of work.
When the addict will be sober, they are quite surprised to find a lot of free time and do not know how to use it because it has always been consumed by addictive behavior. This is why it is important to fill the time sober addict with other wholesome behavior.
Addicts are stupid.
addict’s brain changes that lead to irrational behavior. Addicts do stupid things, but they are not stupid. Irrational (pre-rational to be more specific) part of the brain hijacks the rational side of the brain (pre-frontal cortex). This is why they make emotional decisions that seem irrational, and some addicts make bad decisions for fear of dismissal.
Addicts Live carefree life.
Many foreign addicts I did seem to get a little envious of those who use drugs or alcohol during the day to escape responsibility or reside in the carefree world. In reality, addict who self-medicate to feel normal – whether it be from drugs, alcohol or pornography- often not a good time because they are just trying to find normal. Remember the new “set point” feeling normal has been done within the brain addict.
pornography addicts feel very irritable or experience fuzzy thinking without porn. Alcoholics and drug addicts feel depressed, hopeless or physically sick without their medicine. This is the life that enhance physical, mental and emotional difficulties involved in addiction no longer makes the addict feel euphoric, than usual.
Addicts are slaves. They must continue to use even though many of them know that it is wrong. They often need to lie to those they love and maintain a dishonest life in order to find normal.
Addicts are often paranoid and deal with more fear than not addicts. They know that their games can not keep up. They usually know that sooner or later they will get caught and they know that their addiction will either cause serious problems in their relationships and in some cases can kill them.
Addicts lack willpower.
It is true that addicts usually lack the willpower to beat addiction, but remember that is because of changes in the brain caused by addiction. Because of the deteriorating nature of addiction on the brain of the individual, they are increasingly becoming more obsessive cut despite negative consequences.
In the brain this causes an imbalance or “imbalance Freedom” award in ways that further explain how addiction develops and backlash is all too common. 
When an addict tries to stop using willpower, only then does he feel the full strength of addiction. They often do not know the full strength of addiction because they are always giving. When they make the decision to try to quit they are often defeated and may seem lazy because they lay in bed without a fix. But it is because they have a depleted dopamine caused by long-term overstimulation.
The abstinence user experiences reduced salary neurotransmitters that cause feelings of anxiety, irritability or stress. Extremely high doses of opiates from opium based drugs show a major change in opioid receptors in the brain. 
A failure to stop destructive habits is not due to a lack of willpower, but because of changes in the role of the brain.
Motivation and fear the withdrawal will be outweighed or all rational reasons to stop engaging in behavior. Since the brain has a new set point normal so they continue to use without experiencing terrible on top of being without the drug. 
An Addict will not recover if he is forced.
Addicts do not need to seek help in order for it to work for them. Remember that the majority of addicts are already in denial. They think they do not need help, they think it will not work, and they believe that someday they will be able to figure out a way they can still use without negative consequences.
Addicts often do not go to support groups or treatment centers because they want to. In fact, most of the time addicts are forced to seek treatment. Whether addicts overdose and sent to the hospital or impatient treatment court ordered or pressure from the family of the result seems to be the same. Addicts can go for treatment for the wrong reasons, but after a moment of sobriety, they can start to believe in the right reasons to continue treatment.
In rehab, the addict, the drug has their violently taken away from them, and this is where the addict can realize how dependent they really are. Because addicts are always giving in, sometimes they need to find the full power of their addiction before they realize they have a problem. Sometimes a glimpse of the “real” state allows the addict to have a moment of clarity.
Some addicts are able to quit for days or weeks at a time. This does not mean that they do not have a problem. In fact, if addicts did not have an addiction they would not be “quit” in the first place. Addicts always think they can stop, until they try their very hardest to stay clean forever. Sure addict can go a few days or a week. This is how the addict rationalizes his addiction. They are constantly in denial because they think they have control over their addiction if they do less
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